Ghost haunting my dreams? Please help?

I had a dream last night. Stella who was my great aunt's baby daddy's sister was in it. Also evella who was my mother's closest friend for 30 years was in it. Stella was saying something about a message and i told her to go to the light and of course....she didnt listen. Evella just stood there and agreed. Let it be known that these women never met and died within a year of each other. My mother loved them both very much. But she didnt go to their funerals...cause their families have enough drama to be on maury, jerry springer and dr.phil all in the same week. I um had a dream years ago of evella dying and it happened 2 days later....same with stella. Could that have something to do with it? Why are they in my dreams? If there is a message for my mother...why not just say it? Could it be unfinished business? Do i sound insane? Thanks and xoxo